The Art of Doing Nothing … on Vacation

I am a planner.

My life (for the most part) is planned to the best of my abilities.

Even the “risks” that I take are very well calculated; I have likely already measured the pros/cons/ups/downs of every situation.

Fortunately, when you’re in a different country than your own … you don’t have a lot of control over things and all of things you try to control turn to shit and a blow up in your face.

Well, at least this has been a learning experience.

There are two things I strongly dislike:

  1. Uncertainty
  2. Wasting time

Life is short, why would I spend it “not knowing what’s next” or sitting around watching the day go by?

I’ve learned during my Radical Sabbatical these types of days are necessary.

You need to be curious and wonder what is coming up next? It keeps you on your toes; it keeps life exciting.

You also need days of doing absolutely nothing and stay inside; and when I say nothing, I mean nothing. No laundry, no dishes, no cleaning, heck – no cooking (every Filipino relative will be clutching their pearls seeing that).

Of all the places to learn about doing nothing, I learned it in the most unusual instance: while on vacation.

Flying over the Northern Territories, Australia
(February 7, 2020)

I’ve been going on weekend getaways that I call my, “Vacation from my Holiday” for the last few weeks.

Back in Canada, I would NEVER go away for the weekend.

I couldn’t fathom it, after all, traveling province to province is super expensive via air travel. I’ve also been in school for so long that weekends were meant for homework.

Yet here I am, in the country of my dreams and for the longest while – working my four days a week, then spending the long weekend I was privileged to negotiate … at home.

So, it was time to travel.

At the start of the year, I kicked off a trip down to Melbourne which was amazing and put a lot of things into perspective; like letting go of money and actually travel around Australia.

I purchased tickets to some areas of the country I had wanted to visit for some time:

  1. Yulara, Northern Territories to see Uluru (Ayers Rock)
  2. Gold Coast, Queensland to take on Australia’s highest external building climb (I don’t know why I do these things, I’m afraid of heights)

Yulara, Northern Territories

My Cousin-in-Law, Mark drove me out to the airport.

While waiting for my flight to take off, I watched this crazy foreigner mansplain to the gate agent how to do her job – screaming at her because he wasn’t aware of Jetstar’s strict 7kg combined carry on baggage weight limit and asked if, “is there was a man who I can speak to?”

Well, I wasn’t have it and I walked over to him as he was screaming at her and said, “Hi, excuse me. Couldn’t help but notice the misogyny over here. She told you to pay the $60 for your excess baggage, just pay it and sit down so we can board the plane.”

I was given an exit seat in the isle with extra leg room and complimentary meal vouchers! Eyyyyyyyyyyy!

(it pays off to speak up when no one else does)

The flight was comfortable, quite spacious as there were not a lot of people on the flight.

However, upon getting out of the plane, my clothes clung to me thanks to the 40 degree Celsius heat.

Not comfortable.

Ayers Rock Airport
Northern Territories, Australia
(February 7, 2020)

The accommodations in Yulara are limited. There are no Airbnb’s (something I wish I knew before I booked the trip), so you have some choices when choosing Ayers Rock Resort – specifically the Outback Pioneer Hotel & Lodge (comfort and best value)

When I walked out of the bus to my hotel, I was greeted by a fly going into my mouth.

Yep.

So apparently, a fly look for moisture wherever it can, hence why they love your face; they want to go into your ears, eyes, nose, and mouth.

How do you protect yourself?

Well, there’s bug spray … but that doesn’t really do anything, so you’re encouraged to wear one of these fashionable fly nets.

Does this Fly Net match my outfit?
Yulara, Northern Territories
(February 7, 2020)
A Fly Net won’t stop me from taking a photo
Yulara, Northern Territories
(February 8, 2020)

Another thing about Yulara is that you pay quite a fee to do just about anything there. There are a couple of free activities; but for the most part, you’re paying for everything (check out Get Your Guide for all the excursions) and at an increased price as deliveries to the area are limited due to its isolated area.

Nevertheless, they rely on tourists to help their economy … so GO!

Prices are based off the peak season; so May – October are the best times to go as the climate is more moderate (Winter is busier than Summer).

There is no need to rent a car, almost every excursion you book has shuttle service from outside your hotel, so it’s important:

  1. To call the company do confirm your booking and time of pick up
  2. To coordinate once more with the front desk as times may have changed

My first excursion of the trip was to see Uluru (Ayers Rock) up close (you also need to buy a $25 pass to visit the rock; it’s a separate cost)!

I’ve heard stories about Uluru from my Grade 2/3 Teacher, Mrs. Williams years ago.

There was a time when you could climb Uluru, however the it became a controversy with the First Nations of the area and you can no longer climb it (which is a good thing, trust me).

Like I said earlier, make sure you purchase your National Park Pass for the days you choose to visit!

My first excursions was to do the Uluru 1.5-Hour Sunset Tour with Sparkling Wine & Cheeseboard.

I opted for this as it was the most affordable and purchased a Pizza and some French Fries when I got back to the hotel (so worth it).

It is CRITICAL that you wear your fly mask when you go to Uluru. Just to get the photo ops was a struggle as the flies were so bad in this area of Yulara.

Smiling had to be timed as they would fly into your mouth if it was open for too long.

The “Yulara Salute” is literally you waving your hands to try and swat away flies as they go near the openings of your face. To protect my open wine glass and mouth from flies, I was chugging wine like nobody’s business.

I was still fortunate to capture some shots before the fly net went back on at Uluru:

Uluru at Sunset (yes, wine included – at least with my excursion)
Uluru, Northern Territories
(February 7, 2020)
Uluru at Sunset (yes, wine included – at least with my excursion)
Uluru, Northern Territories
(February 7, 2020)

The next day, I woke up early for a tour of the Australian Outback with one of the best forms of transport available: Camel.

Boof the Camel
Uluru Camel Tours
Yulara, Northern Territories
(February 8, 2020)

Surprisingly, camels roam in the wild in Australia. They were brought to the county back in the early days of forming for commutes in the outback; delivering mail for Australia Post or doing supply runs for the locals.

They’re able to survive with their population continuing the grow because they’re one of the only animals in Australia that do not have a predator.

It is encouraged that you do not explore the outback without an expert guide, and walking it can be very long and can take a toll on the body – so this camel tour is highly recommended!

Camel Tour
Uluru, Northern Territories
(February 8, 2020)
Uluru Camel Tours
Yulara, Northern Territories
(February 8, 2020)
Camel Tour
Uluru, Northern Territories
(February 8, 2020)

So, here’s the thing about being in Yulara.

It’s hot.

Like, super hot.

I’ve never experienced a place where the moment you walk outside, you instantly begin to sweat (it’s worse than humid Manila, Philippines).

It’s an extremely uncomfortable heat – and as someone who doesn’t like hot weather (I know, and I chose to live in Australia), the heat and I battled it out and I succumbed to it.

So, when I wasn’t busy with an excursion, I did something I’ve never done before on a holiday: I laid in my air conditioned hotel room and did absolutely nothing.

I ordered room service, watched TV shows: re-runs of classic sitcoms, the Democratic Primaries, and random comedy/action/dramatic movies. Then, when I was bored of that, I napped.

I’ve never felt so relaxed on a vacation.

I usually jam pack my holidays with different excursions and adventures, they are times become more exhausting that relaxing.

This is also why I usually travel alone: I want the freedom to do whatever I want, when I want, and not have to compromise.

In the evening, I chose to go on one of Yulara’s most popular excursions: Field of Lights.

The description of the experience from the website is:

“As darkness falls and Uluru is thrown into silhouette, Field of Light illuminates. As far as the eye can see gentle rhythms of colour light up the desert.

The critically acclaimed Field of Light Uluru by the internationally celebrated artist Bruce Munro is on display and due to popular demand, has now been extended indefinitely.

The exhibition, aptly named Tili Wiru Tjuta Nyakutjaku or ‘looking at lots of beautiful lights’ in local Pitjantjatjara is Munro’s largest work to date.

Overwhelming in size, covering more than seven football fields, it invites immersion in its fantasy garden of 50,000 spindles of light, the stems breathing and swaying through a sympathetic desert spectrum of ochre, deep violet, blue and gentle white.”

Now, I cannot really explain just how breathtaking the experience is – but believe me you, it haha we ab experience I won’t forget!

Field of Lights
Yulara, Northern Territories
Field of Lights
Yulara, Northern Territories

The final day of my trip came and after breakfast, I got ready to go back to the airport.

Upon arriving? I was informed that my flight was going to be three hours late and there was a storm in Sydney that has crippled the train system and airlines.

Great.

Ayers Rock Airport
Northern Territories, Australia
(February 9, 2020)

At least I got to cross of the Northern Territories off my list of places to visit in Australia!

Gold Coast, Queensland

Next thing I knew, I was getting ready for my next adventure, a weekend trip to the Gold Coast!

The trip started out as the biggest cluster I’ve ever experienced.

I checked into my flight the night before and packed my bag for the weekend.

I was set to take the first flight out of sydney at 6am, which meant I needed to take the first train at 4am.

Just as I was about to fall asleep, I received a text from the airline saying my flight was canceled due to operational issues and I needed to call the airline to be put on the next available flight.

Now, you’d think calling an airline would be easy at 11pm, right?

Wrong.

I was on hold for 20 minutes and then when the agent greeted me hello, he hung up.

The words that came out of my mouth shortly after cannot be repeated on here … but there was no shortage of me expressing my frustration and dissatisfaction of this experience.

After another 45 minutes of waiting, I was connecting to an agent and booked on the next flight out of Sydney at 10am.

About to board the plane
Sydney Airport
Sydney, NSW
(February 14, 2020)

The flight to the Gold Coast was a quick one. We were placed on a transfer flight going to Seoul, South Korea so we were on a newer plane with comfortable seats and had inflight entertainment.

Cheeky Tarmac Photo
Gold Coast Airport
Gold Coast, Queensland
(February 14, 2020)

Once getting off the plane and going through the painful task of clearing customs, I was whisked away into the shuttle, hopped in my rental car, and I was on my way to my first stop!

Jackson and I at his gym: Rivals Athlete Performance Centre
Gold Coast, Queensland
(February 14, 2020)

I stopped by a local gym in the Gold Coast and paid a visit to someone very important in my life.

I’ve known this “kid” forever.

I’ve taught him Sunday School, I’ve been his Small Group Leader, I’ve been his Camp Counsellor and I’ve even hung out with him while his folks were at work or out for the evening.

I’ve spent countless nights around the dinner table being teased by him for refusing to use my fingers while eating saucy chicken wings and we’ve battled it out with burping the alphabet.

He has beat me in every physical activity I can think of: Wrestling, Baseball, Basketball, Soccer, Ultimate Frisbee, Badminton … the list could really go on.

Oh, and don’t get me started with badly I’ve lost playing Nintendo Wii against him.

Jackson trained me at his gym. He fixed my form, coached me on technique, and identified opportunities that need to be worked on to avoid injuries.

It was quite a surreal experience!

“Love at First Slice”
Burleigh Heads Beach, Gold Coast
(February 14, 2020)

Of course, after my killer workout, I needed some post workout eats … so I decided to grab a Pizza at Dominos and walk down the the beach.

It was also Valentines Day, so the beach was flooded with couples everywhere I could see.

Believe me you, I was the ONLY single person on that beach.

I was asked by beach goers if I could take photos of them posing in front of sunsets, their picnics, or in the water.

So, I was walking along the beach with my pizza and saw a young woman setting up a display for a couple that was arriving.

So, I asked her to take a photo of my Valentine, the delicious Pizza that isn’t capable of hurting my feelings, just my arteries.

Worth it.

Date Night designed by Make it You’Nique Events
Burleigh Heads Beach, Gold Coast
(February 14, 2020)

I didn’t plan much on my weekend in the Gold Coast.

I had two daytime excursions planned around Surfers Paradise, and that was about it.

A trick to the Gold Coast if you’re renting a car; there is paid parking EVERYWHERE!

BUT!!!!!!!! If you park at the local shopping centre, Pacific Fair, it’s FREE parking for 5 hours! So, I parked there, walked through the mall, then walked out to the G:link (Light Rail) outside and went into Surfers Paradise (yup, I’m that guy).

Surfers Paradise Beach Walk’n
Gold Coast, Queensland
(February 15, 2020)

Surfers Paradise was exactly what I thought it would be.

It was packed, there was a sandcastle building competition, and there was no shortage of activities for all ages.

I’ve always said, “I like the beach, I don’t like going in the water.”

So, I saw it, grabbed a photo, then I was out.

The main reason for going to Surfers Paradise was to kill time before my main excursion: do the Skypoint Climb at the Q1 Building!

Group Shot
Skypoint Climb
Gold Coast, Queensland
(February 15, 2020)

Some quick stats about the Skypoint Climb:

  • SkyPoint Climb is Australia’s highest external building climb.
  • SkyPoint has one of Australia’s fastest elevators taking you from ground to Level 77 (SkyPoint Observation Deck) in 42.7 seconds, where you will begin the Climb.
  • Once outside, close to 298 stairs will guide climbers up to the summit.
  • The Q1 Spire located at the summit is one of the world’s longest at 97.7m. It commences at level 75, is made up of 12 sections and weighs 87.2 tonnes.
  • The Q1 Building itself, is taller than the Chrysler building in New York City, and is structurally the 25th tallest building in the world at 322.5 metres high!
  • SkyPoint is Australia’s only beachside Observation Deck.
Skypoint Climb
Gold Coast, Queensland
(February 15, 2020)
Skypoint Climb
Gold Coast, Queensland
(February 15, 2020)

The funny thing is, I’m really afraid of heights.

I get really nervous and shakey – not to the point of pukingbut definitely close to passing out.

Skypoint Climb
Gold Coast, Queensland
(February 15, 2020)

So, we all had a good laugh at the front desk when the staff greeted me and welcomed me to my experience.

Jasmine (our guide) said, “Welcome to the Skypoint Climb, Mr. Punzalan! What brings you here today?”

I looked at her and her staff and just said, “I just wanted the photo for Instagram.”

This is my life.

Skypoint Climb
Gold Coast, Queensland
(February 15, 2020)

While I was one the climb, I was in front of a couple celebrating one of their birthdays, the big 60!

We got to talking and they asked me where I was going to go next after this.

I wasn’t sure.

I didn’t plan anything else after climbing the Q1, I was okay with this whole “doing nothing” and seeing where the day goes.

They explained one of the interesting things about the Gold Coast is how it’s border works.

While the Gold Coast is in Queensland, there are area around the Gold Coast that are actually in New South Wales; which not only represents a different state, but also a different timezone!

I asked if they had any recommendations for me to do after our climb?

They live in Byron Bay, which is about 1.5 south of the Gold a Coast, in New South Wales.

I’ve heard about Byron Bay, a very popular tourist attraction for the beaches, lighthouse, and a direct lookout point to where Captain Cook arrived.

There’s that saying, “when you’re not sure what do to on vacation, do as the locals do.”

Well, they told me to check out Byron Bay and I chose to do as the locals do, so, I hopped in the car (making it just 10 minutes shy of the 5 hour mark, so my parking was still free), and made the drive down!

There was no traffic on the scenic drive towards Byron. It was funny seeing my phone switch an hour due to the time change.

I did what you’re supposed to do any drive: music blasting, windows down, and on cruise control enjoying the views around me.

I got to Byron Bay and found parking (after driving around for 20 minutes for an available spot).

Cape Byron walking track
Byron Bay, NSW
(February 15, 2020)

I did the Cape Byron walking track (which I underestimated as I was wearing the wrong shorts/shirt/shoes for an outdoor hike in 36 degree weather).

Cape Byron walking track
Byron Bay, NSW
(February 15, 2020)

The views were unlike anything I had seen before.

As I walked around, I realized that I wouldn’t have seen this had I done what I usually did and “planned” my entire trip to the very last detail.

Cape Byron walking track
Byron Bay, NSW
(February 15, 2020)

That’s the thing about “doing nothing” on a vacation.

You give space for the unexpected, the spontaneous, the surprises to happen.

It’s okay to ask the locals once you arrive, “what do you recommend we do?”

You’ll be surprised what they recommend.

It really is an art.

Capy Byron Lighthouse
Byron Bay, NSW
(February 15, 2020)

As I continued down the walking path, I got to a fence and sat there watching the waves crashing against the rocks below.

I tried to position my phone to get the best angle to grab a selfie when a local scuba instructor saw me standing there and asked me if I wanted to walk down with him so he could show me a better vantage shot.

One of the things I’ve learned while being on holidays is to give my phone to anyone who is willing to take a photo for me.

Cape Byron walking track
Byron Bay, NSW
(February 15, 2020)
Cape Byron walking track
Byron Bay, NSW
(February 15, 2020)

And, just like that, it was time to go home … fortunately the flight home from the Gold Coast was much better than the flight going there.

I always try and sneak a photo on the tarmac … worth it every time
Gold Coast, Queensland
(February 16, 2020)

The next week, I received a surprise message from my aunt that my beloved Granny was brought back to Australia after three months in the Philippines.

I’ve said from the beginning, my Granny is the reason God paved a way for me to come back to Australia and spend some more time with her while she still has time on this earth.

I love this woman with all my heart
#GrannyAndMe
Sydney, NSW
(February 23, 2020)

Question time:

When is your next vacation?

What would happen if you left space in your itinerary to:

  1. Do absolutely nothing
  2. Do as the locals do

You’ll be surprised what can come out of your vacation when you plan less and just let things happen – oh, and say hello to everyone; you never know how far a hello can go.

We likely had the worst scorecard of everyone there
(I lost both rounds, but I won the night)
Holey Moley Golf Club
Newtown, NSW
(February 22, 2020)

It’s been working out for me so far.

Onwards,
Zaighum

(100 Days left in Australia … yikes)

Into the Unknown; How to Prepare for a Working Holiday in Australia

“Don’t worry about the world ending today, it’s already tomorrow in Australia.”

Charles M. Schulz
New Years Day 2019
Sydney Opera House
Sydney, Australia
(January 1, 2019)

This time last year, I was ringing in the New Year at the Sydney Opera House, watching the night sky over Circular Quay fill up with Fireworks being shot up from the Sydney Harbour Bridge and surrounding area.

As I stared up at the sky, I felt a voice within me say, “it’s time” and I finally gave myself permission to follow my dream of living in Australia for a year, which I have since dubbed my “Radical Sabbatical.”

Many people have been messaging me and asking about how they would go about preparing for a Working Holiday in Australia, so I’ve put together all of the things I could think of to help you prepare.

First and foremost:

  1. Be certain. Packing up your life and moving to the other side of the world is not for the faint of heart. I have family here and it still took me five years of contemplating the big decision and to be emotionally, mentally and financially ready to come here.
  2. Get your finances in check. If you have debt in Canada like a car or a massive credit card bill – you won’t be doing yourself any favours by moving to the other side of the world while your debt accumulates. Pay it off, then come over – I did and it was the best decision!

Once you are ready, you need to follow these steps:

  1. Apply for your Working Holiday visa (Subclass 417) by following this link:
    • You must be within 18 – 35 years old and cannot bring children or come here if you have had a visa rejected in the past.
    • You must pay $485 AUD just to lodge your request.
    • With this visa, you can stay in Australia for 12 Months.
    • Do short-term work in Australia to help pay for your holiday.
    • Study for up to 4 months.
    • Travel to and from Australia as many times are you want.
    • Do 3 months of specified work to become eligible for a second Working Holiday visa.
    • Bring $5,000 AUD (Department of Home Affairs can bar you from entering the country if you do not have proof of funds) upon arrival in Australia.
  2. Once your visa is granted, make sure you get a Tax File Number (TFN) by following this link:
    • Your tax file number (TFN) is your personal reference number in the tax and super systems.
    • Your TFN is an important part of your tax and super records as well as your identity, so keep it secure.
    • Your TFN is yours for life. You keep the same TFN even if you change your name, change jobs, move interstate or go overseas.
    • You don’t have to have a TFN, but without one you pay more tax. You also won’t be able to apply for government benefits, lodge your tax return electronically or get an Australian business number (ABN).
  3. You need to attain a Unique Student Identifier by following this link. This will allow you to attend nationally recognized training courses which will allow you to work in:
    • Hospitality/Tourism (serving/bar tending/hotel/casino work), you must have a valid Responsible Service of Alcohol (RSA) and Responsible Conduct of Gambling (RCG) in the state in which you reside in.
    • Trade/Construction (general labour, carpentry, electrical, plumbing etc.) requires you to have a valid White Card.
    • Children/Youth (child care centres, youth homes, recreation work) requires you to have a valid Blue Card.
  4. Superannuation (or ‘super’) – you are encouraged to get a Super Account from a designated holder so all of your funds will go into a central place vs. an employer nominated provider. I use Vision Super which is very user friendly, just follow this link:
    • Superannuation is a form of saving for retirement in Australia.
    • When you visit and work in Australia, your employer may be required to make super contributions to a super fund on your behalf.
    • When you leave Australia, you may be eligible to claim that super back as a departing Australia superannuation payment (DASP). There are requirements you will need to meet to claim your DASP.
    • Your DASP is taxed before you receive it. The DASP tax rate is different for working holiday makers (WHM). If you hold (or held) a 417 (Working Holiday) or 462 (Work and Holiday) visa you are classified as a WHM.
    • To go directly to the Australian Taxation Office page for Temporary Residents and Super, follow this link
  5. Choosing a Bank
    • If you do not bank with them currently, HSBC has an International Account which you can research by following this link. Opening an account prior to coming will save you a lot of grief:
      • If you are moving abroad you can open your new chequing account before you leave so it’s set up when you arrive. Please allow up to 30 days to process your application. You must meet all HSBC qualifying criteria and document submission requirements.
      • Open an account in 37 different countries including U.S.A., China, U.K., and Hong Kong. Subject to qualifications, status and local country laws and regulations.
      • They’ll review your international needs to ensure your banking needs are met.
      • By transferring your HSBC credit history, it’s even easier to continue your banking relationship with us. Subject to qualifications, status and local country laws and regulations.
      • Due to local country laws and regulations, it can take 30 days to process your application. Their Global International Banking Centre team will keep you regularly updated on the progress of your application through telephone and email. If you have any questions, please reach out to your Case Manager during Canadian Business Hours.
    • The best bank to open up an account with while on a Working Holiday is with National Australia Bank (NAB) Classic Banking account, which you can look into by following this link:
      • Once you get your TFN, you can open up your bank account.
      • You will need a home address prior to opening up your bank account.
      • There are $0.00 Account Fees.
      • There are $0.00 Overdrawn Fees.
      • There are $0.00 Withdrawal Fees at over 7,000 ATM’s nationwide.
  6. Choosing a Phone Carrier – Australia has some pretty great phone plans with generous data packages; don’t forget to unlock your phone prior to arriving!
    • When you clear customs, there are several places where you can get a phone plan. This is my go to:
      • Telstra Pre-Paid Max offers the following, click the link to compare:
        • Cost: $300.
        • Expiry: 365 Days from purchase.
        • Data: 150g.
        • Access to Telstra Air (similar to Shaw Open) which gives you FREE WiFi in several eligible spots.

Now that the logistics are out of the way, consider the following:

  1. Understand the best time to go:
    • The Australian Financial Year is July to June whereas Canada’s is January – December. I recommend coming here in June so you can take the month to settle in before you go about finding work and deciding what you want to do.
    • Another reason why June is the best time to go is because the climate is more moderate. You are encouraged to do your specified work (farming, fruit picking, labour) which is a total of 88 Work Days in a rural area of Australia between July – October while the weather is bearable to work in.
  2. Decide where you want to settle:
    • Australia is vast, there are many places people with a Working Holiday will settle.
    • Sydney, New South Wales is of course the most popular City to live in, but it is also one of the most expensive. Here are some great cities to start in other than Sydney:
      • Melbourne, Victoria
      • Gold Coast, Queensland
      • Brisbane, Queensland
      • Cairns, Queensland
      • Perth, West Australia
    • Look up where you want to live:
      • Hostels
      • Shared accommodation
  3. Finding Work – if you aren’t picky, it shouldn’t be difficult to find work! One way to do it is to just walk up to different cafe/restaurants with your CV on hand. In hospitality jobs, one thing to be aware of is they may ask you to have a “Trial Shift” which is two hours of unpaid work in which they assess your skill-set and fit for the job.

    You can use the following links below to look at some of the most common job boards:
  4. Culture Shockers:
    • Avoid cash in hand jobs – you will want pay slips as they are required by law; if you are caught breaking tax laws, you can be denied any future entry.
    • Some employers pay weekly and others pay monthly – if you have never been a “budgeter”, start learning.
    • Rent is often due weekly – depending on how you are paid, you will need to make sure you can afford your accommodations.
    • While taxes are included in many prices, things are expensive here! In fact, Australia has one of the highest costs of living in the world; while the average wages are higher to accommodate the cost of living, be mindful of how quickly money can go (and how much is taxed on it).
    • It isn’t always hot in Australia – yes, while the climate can be warmer, it can also be quite chilly; especially at night. Pack for all temperatures.
    • You need to claim the money that you earn in Australia with the CRA prior to you filing your taxes in Canada (yup, that’s right – not a lot of people know this one).

Well that’s what I can think of, I hope it can serve you!

Happy Planning and listen to the song below as you do it – it’s so perfect!

Onwards,
-Zaighum

Yes, I watched Frozen 2 … yes, I loved it.

What’s Most Impressive is not Always Most Important

“To change your life, you need to change your priorities.”

Mark Twain

One of the most significant lessons I have learned in the five months that I’ve been in Australia is the difference between what’s most impressive and what’s most important.

Here are some examples from my own life:

Impressive: I worked for a globally recognized brand. In my job, I have been able to visit markets in Alberta (Canada), Saskatchewan (Canada), Ontario (Canada), Illinois (USA), Manila (Philippines) and New South Wales (Australia). I have personally met or corresponded with executives and leaders throughout the global system, to the point where we are on a first name basis.

Important: As a part of my role, I had the unique opportunity to approve donation and sponsorship requests for organizations and non-profits that supported families in need, at risk children and youth, local sports teams, and large scale community events.

Impressive: While working full time, I completed my Bachelor of Arts in Leadership in an 18 Month accelerated program and graduated with Great Distinction.

Important: After dropping out of University in 2015, I honoured my mothers wish of seeing her only child complete a degree in the country she immigrated to over twenty years ago.

Impressive: While in Australia, I lost over 25lbs and have kept the weight off. I dropped two pant sizes and a shirt size.

Important: I have learned to love myself and make myself a priority by getting into a regular workout routine and incorporating balanced meals into my diet.

Impressive: I found a job in Australia that gives me a generous rate, allows work life balance, has taken me around the country, gives me flexibility to work four days a week.

Important: I have an opportunity to help a small business significantly improve their operations and efficiency to best serve their clients and the meaningful connections I have made in almost four months of being there has made my time in Australia less lonely.

We often put all of our energy into the things that are most impressive – they are things that look great to other people but sometimes offer us zero personal fulfillment.

What gets left behind and often forgotten is what’s most important – the thing that often serves others instead of ourselves; the thing that often serves a higher purpose than our own.

Think about it for just a moment? What would happen if you put in all of your energy into what’s most important instead of what’s most impressive?

Alexandria, NSW
(October 30, 2019)

When I arrived in Australia, I had not let go of my career. I desperately wanted to jump right back in with the Australian office which I was in communication with every month leading up to my arrival. It would have been so cool to continue my work with a global company in another market in another country? That would be pretty impressive, eh?

That being said, my friend Kyle who ultimately left Australia to live in Canada gave me a massive reality check one day while I cried to him on the phone. Should I have been given the opportunity, I would have gone back to the life I had left behind in Vancouver. I would have gone back to working 5 – 6 days a week, multiple hours of unseen overtime, glued to my work phone, responding to emails that could have waited until the next day, and filling my free time with finding something else work related to fill it with. Oh, and the commute there and back would be three and a half hours a day.

So, when the job offer came from that company to support them in their Customer Service Call Centre for one of their largest nationwide campaigns, I faced quite the predicament: play it safe and go back to what I knew or be patient for the right opportunity to present itself.

Nevertheless, I presented some terms to counter their offer: I wanted to work Part-Time, just four days a week, Monday to Thursday would suffice and I would take the job.

They said, “No.”

I realized my value and what I needed from a company while I was in Australia. I reminded myself, I am in this country on a Work & Holiday Visa; I need to work to fund my holiday – and I need to enjoy every moment of my holiday. That is important.

So I moved on.

I chose me, and I don’t regret one minute of it.

Engadine, NSW
(November 1, 2019)

You see, when you choose to focus on what’s most important vs. what’s most impressive, a transformation within you occurs.

It’s very liberating.

Staying true to what I needed from an employer, I sought jobs that would allow me to work part-time and in an environment where I could meet new people.

Today, I live and breathe it – at least for the six months that the Australian Government allows me to work there.

I am so thankful I waited for the right opportunity, for I have met some extraordinary individuals who have changed my life for the better.

Kicking off the “Full Send”
Iron Duke Hotel
(October 25, 2019)

One of the strengths of my employer and his company is the ability to take random strangers from all around Australia, and bring them to a place where they identify common interests, passions, desires, personalities etc.

That’s just at the events.

Now, imagine a bunch of strangers from different walks of life finding this place of work. Where we see each other at least five days a week, for eight hours a day, and learning more and more about each other as the days go by. A bond begins to build, you see things in them you strive to achieve. While some only worked there for a season, in that time we were able to build a relationships that went beyond the workplace.

Back in Canada, I used to give the sarcastic response to, “How’re you doing?” with, “Oh, I’m living the dream.”

When Australians ask me, “How’re you going?”, I can honestly, whole heartedly, without a shred of uncertainty, look a them in the eye and say, “I’m living the dream!”

Choosing to pack up my life and move to Australia was impressive, but why I have chosen to stay is important.

F A M I L Y

I always felt disconnected as everyone in my family lives in Australia and the Philippines, while I lived in Canada. Sometimes, they would visit us and sometimes, I would visit them.

I wanted to learn who they were, what’s their story, and where is there common ground.

There is one person who brings us all together, despite our differences and that person is my Granny.

Mount Druitt, NSW
(November 10, 2019)

In the year 2000, she came to Canada to live with us. In 2002, she came to visit us again. In 2003, I lived in Australia with her. In 2010, we visited her in the Philippines to celebrate her birthday. In 2015, I visited Australia and lived with her while I was here. In 2016, I visited her twice a day, everyday in the nursing home she was living in. In 2018, I went to the Philippines to celebrate her 90th birthday. In 2019, she was brought back to Australia and I was given one more opportunity to be near her.

You see, she now has dementia. She barely remembers who you are, and when she does she becomes overwhelmed with emotion and then quickly forgets who you are until you remind her again.

While this can be an exhausting and sometimes frustrating pattern, it is very beautiful with her childlike innocence.

We received a phone call letting us know she was going to be brought back to the Philippines as her health took a sudden turn and perhaps being in a familiar environment surrounded by her family in the Philippines would help improve her health; it has in the past.

So we all went to see her, and despite the drama that comes with every big family, we put it all aside to see our matriarch for what could be the last time and it was such a great time – my heart was full.

Cronulla, NSW
(November 9, 2019)

My cousin, Nina came to visit from the rural areas of New South Wales for a weekend. It’s always great to see her, she doesn’t come up very often as it’s about an 8 hour drive to get to Sydney from where they are.

Nevertheless, she finds time and I was fortunate to squeeze in a visit with her.

While Nina has many accomplishments: married to her high school sweet heart, three beautiful children, a great job as a Teacher – one of the most significant ones is she is the only one in our family to have gone to Grad School! Yup, my cousin recently finished her Masters of Teacher Librarianship – the first to reach that level of higher education.

I always knew I would not be content with my undergrad, but I also did not believe I had the ability to complete grad school, let alone be accepted into a program. However, watching my cousin and her resilience in completing her graduate studies while being a full time teacher, a mother, a wife, and running a household was just the kick in the ass that I needed.

So, I applied for Grad School.

I’ve been met with some success in offers and have also been greeted with some rejection.

To date, the most significant offer I’ve been given is by the Faculty of Arts and Social Sciences at the University of Technology Sydney to complete a Master of Education in Learning and Leadership.

While I’m extremely grateful for all of the graduate study offers I’ve been given to date, I have to weight out all of my options as I determine what program will best serve me in reaching my goals.

University of Technology Sydney
Sydney, NSW
(November 22, 2019)

So, that’s what I’ve been up to these days. I have seven more months of my Radical Sabbatical to spend learning, growing, and exploring – we are entering the summer months in Australia, I am very excited!

I am choosing to make a conscious effort everyday to put my energy into what’s most important vs. what’s most impressive.

How about you? What would your life start looking like if you poured more of yourself into what’s most important vs. what’s most impressive?

Looking at every situation you’re faced with using that pre-frame will change your life.

After all, it changed mine.

“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You’re on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the one who’ll decide where to go…” – Dr. Seuss
Engadine, NSW
(November 22, 2019)

Onwards,
-Zaighum

If I Knew Then What I Know Now

“You have to do what you love to do, not get stuck in that comfort zone of a regular job. Life is not a dress rehearsal. This is it.”

Lucinda Bassett
Flight from Brisbane to Melbourne
Qantas Airline
(October 3, 2019)

This week, I celebrated my fourth month (eight more to go) in Australia.

I’ve been trying to get my sleep schedule back to normal and get used to my new workout routine (I had to switch gyms).

I just got back from three weeks of traveling around Australia, something I had wanted to do but didn’t think I’d be able to do until 2020.

So, you can imagine my reaction when my employer invited me to be a part of their interstate tour around the country as their Tour Production Manager!

7 Steps to 7 Figure Tour Team
Luke (Business Owner – Back left), Brock (Videographer – Top right), Renee (Sales/Coaching Assistant – Bottom left), Myself (Headache creator – Bottom right)

We had the unique opportunity to visit seven major cities in Australia: Canberra, Sydney (where I live), Gold Coast, Brisbane, Melbourne, Adelaide and Perth.

We were promoting a new business course that my employer designed to support Small Business Owners grow their organizations to reach seven figures.

QT Canberra
Canberra, ACT
(September 24, 2019)

I loved meeting different entrepreneurs and hearing about their businesses. Some were personal development coaches, some developed apps, there were some personal trainers and tradespeople, a few accountants and network marketers too. I met some unique individuals: a fire cracker public speaking coach, someone saving Australian wildlife, one person was writing a book, and another implementing a recycling program.

Flying back to Sydney
Tullamarine Airport Melbourne
(October 4, 2019)

Of all the people we met on the trip, no one stood out as much as the gentleman in our row on our flight to Adelaide.

This man was in his late fifties and told us about his dream job and how he got to this very place (sitting on a plane, flying around Australia).

You see, over fifteen years ago, he was about to hit his 40th birthday. For years he was in a line of work that did not fulfill him but he felt he was obligated to stay in it because “that’s what you’re supposed to do”:

  1. Go to university
  2. Get a job
  3. Get married
  4. Buy a house
  5. Start a family
  6. Pay into your retirement
  7. Retire
  8. Die

As he approached his 40th birthday he realized he couldn’t see himself working in his career for another 25+ years and decided it was time to quit the successful career he had built and go ahead and follow his dreams. He shared that while he wanted to “up and leave” his career, he also acknowledged he had obligations to his family. He consulted with his wife and children and they agreed the decision to make a career change was the right decision and encouraged him to follow his dreams, turn it into a career and live and breathe it everyday until he retires.

Fast forward to today, he has been operating a successful business where he buys and sells muscle/collector cars for his clients all around Australia.

As he reflected on his 2nd career after almost two decades, he expressed his relief and thankfulness that he gave himself permission to pursue his dream.

I asked him if he had any regrets from his decision of leaving a career he had established for another career in his 40’s, and he said:

If I knew then what I know now, I would have given myself permission to do this much sooner.”

He commended me for leaving my career when I did and pursuing my radical sabbatical while still in my 20’s, then asked me why I had waited so long and, “if you knew then what you know now, would you have come sooner?

I didn’t have the answer.

Flight to Perth
Australia
(October 9, 2019)

As we were on our next flight to Perth, I pondered on that question:

If I knew then what I know now, would I have come here sooner?

Yes.

I thought the last four years of building my career, finishing my degree, and growing my network would benefit me when I got to Australia.

Meh.

Now, do I regret doing all of those things? Absolutely not; I am proud of every accomplishment – working in a role that I loved (and still grieving its end), completing my degree with great distinction while I worked full time, and building a global network of professionals from different fields.

However, if I knew then what I know now, I should have come here sooner. I should have come here during a time when I was more fearless and more free spirited – where I’d pack a backpack instead of a suitcase, sleep in a hostel instead of an Airbnb, get a serving/farming job in the middle of rural Australia instead of multiple failed applications to jobs in the populated city.

I have become too much of a perfectionist and have carefully calculated so much of this trip that I have become scared of truly letting go of control, letting things happen as they happen and just say as Mrs. Brown would say, “feck it, it’s grand!”

So, while I am unable to turn back time, I can choose to make the most of things now that I’m here. So, here’s to more of those “feck it” moments during my radical sabbatical!

Sydney Domestic Airport
Sydney, Australia
(October 8, 2019)

Back in my previous career, I used to do presentations with our community partners back in Canada and speak about one of the reasons why people stay in any company, and one of the biggest reasons is the people we work with.

I’ve grown to love the people I once worked with and I can honestly say I’d still be willing to go to the ends of the earth for some of them. The hardest part of leaving was saying goodbye to them; knowing our relationships may change and I may not see them again.

One of the struggles I’ve been dealing with since arriving in Australia is not making friends. I have gotten to know some people through the gym, church, and the odd conversation on public transit, a pub or the beach. The easiest way to meet people is downloading the classic quick dating apps however I’ve noticed that the people on there are not the people I want to meet anymore; I want to face some of my personal fears and force myself to meet people in crowded settings. Yenno, having a social life over the phone (especially when you’re +17 hours ahead) is exhausting – sometimes I feel like I forget how to talk to people in person?

When I started my job after almost three months of (f)unemployment, my biggest fear was making friends at work. Fortunately, it didn’t take very long – I work with some great people and I was able to travel Australia with them.

Southport Sharks Health + Fitness
Gold Coast, Australia
(October 2, 2019)

Some mornings we were responsible and went to the gym …

Heroes Karaoke & Rooftop Bar
Melbourne, Australia
(October 4, 2019)

And some nights we went out … did you know Long Island Ice Tea’s have 4.5 different shots in them? Who knew?

At the end of the work trip, we met a couple of local celebrities Elise & Matt from the hit TV Show, The Block

We were starstruck meeting our favourite “Block Heads”, Elise & Matt from The Block!
T1 Domestic Airport (Virgin Australia)
Perth, Australia
(October 10, 2019)

Now that I am back home, I’m trying to map out some further travel in the remaining eight months that I have left in Australia. There is so much of this country I’d like to see – I have to make it count!

I get compliments on my passport holder by people when they see it.
They ask me where I got it from and I always choke up when I respond.
Hers was one of the hardest goodbyes I had to give.

Question for you: If you knew then what you know now, what would you have done differently?

Better question: can you do it now?

If there is one thing I have learned in these last few months (the lead up and arrival of being in Australia), it is how much fear and doubt prevent us from following our dreams. We make excuses as to why we cannot do the things we want to do; comfort, finances, education, employment – these can become shackles that bind us down.

What will it take for you to break free and act on your dreams, whatever they might be?

You don’t need to wait till you’re 40 (or another milestone age if you’re already past 40) to follow whatever dream you’ve been holding onto.

Thank you for being a part of my journey – I can’t wait to share more with you.

Onwards,
-Zaighum

Three Months Down, Nine More to Go!

Cronulla Point
Cronulla, NSW, Australia
(September 1, 2019)

“One reason people resist change is because they focus on what they have to give up, instead of what they have to gain.”

Rick Godwin

How do you react to change?

Pause before you answer!

The politically correct response that usually comes up is:

  • “I love change!”
  • “I welcome change!”
  • “Change is good!”

In my conversations with people, change actually scares the shit out of them.

In my own life, I realized how scared I was of change.

Here I was, since 2015 telling people I was going to pursue this dream of living in Australia, only to find every excuse not to do it.

After all, how could I give up everything I had:

  • I had just finished my degree, it was time to grow my career
  • I had an amazing job, like, I really had an amazing job
  • I had a reliable car that was paid off – I was debt free
  • I had a solid group of friends who understood me and were accessible at any moment

Next thing I know, I’m sitting at the departure gate at Vancouver International Airport on June 15th, 2019:

  • I had pressed pause on building a career
  • I quit my job and needed to accept that I was likely not going to be welcomed back
  • I sold my car and was going to be relying on public transit
  • I was leaving my social life, I would be going to the other side of the world and be +17 hours ahead of Vancouver time

Was it hard leaving? Yes.

Do I regret leaving? No.

Let me *pause* here and share what I’ve been up to.

It has been a busy month, let me tell you!

I’ve gone back to work which has taken up a lot of my time.

Sure, I only work four days a week at six hours a day (thanks to the Government of Canada who taxes my income even while I temporary live overseas), however I am feeling fulfilled in the work I have been doing as I help a growing business reach their goals.

7 Steps to 7 Figures Intro Event
The Sydney Boulevard Hotel
Sydney, Australia
(September 26, 2019)

I’ve been asked to join our team as the Event Producer as we embark on a seven city tour of Australia where we are meeting with small business owners and business leaders; introducing them to seven areas each business leaders need to familiarize them with in order to make their business successful.

It’s funny, one of my goals was to visit different cities in the country before my Radical Sabbatical was over, and now here I am: three months into my trip, visiting Canberra, Sydney, Gold Coast, Brisbane, Melbourne, Adelaide, and Perth for work … how cool is that?!

8 Weeks with F45 Engadine!

Another big accomplishment I was able to reach was getting back into a fitness routine.

When I joined the 8 Week Challenge with F45, I had no idea it would mean giving up the holiday staples: bread, potatoes, and booze.

Yet, here I was – sacrificing afternoons that used to be dedicated to jumping from bar-to-bar to all of a sudden box jumping. I ate the same thing almost everyday, grocery shop on Thursday, meal prep on Saturday.

Drastic changes in my eating habits and paired with going to the gym five days a week paid off!

I found other ways to incorporate practical changes into my life:

  • I would get off the train a station early from my destination to walk the extra few km’s
  • At the train stations, I would take the stairs instead of the escalators
  • It usually takes 20 minutes to walk from my house to the train station, so I would pick up my pace to do it within 15 minutes or less
Granny’s 91st Birthday Party
Engadine, NSW
(September 21, 2019)
She might have dementia and ask me who I am every five minutes, but when she remembers, she tells me I’m her favourite … can you blame her?

Another major milestone was celebrating my granny’s 91st birthday.

There is some significance to being able to do this:

  1. Last year, all of my Granny’s overseas family (Australia/Canada) flew to the Philippines to celebrate my Granny’s 90th birthday
  2. She has dementia, and quickly forgets who we are
  3. Her health continues to fluctuate, I mean c’mon – she’s in her 90’s

As I shared in my last post, my Granny was being brought to Australia from the Philippines – a plan no one had any idea was in the works until the week it actually happened.

We weren’t even sure if she would be able to be admitted onto the plane, she’s so frail.

Yet, here she was with all of us. I continue to standby my belief that everything fell into place the way it did and when it did; that I am in Australia for such a time as this.

It was magical watching her come down the driveway last Saturday.

She shuffled down the carport after arriving fashionably late.

As she walked down, her 90 year old best friend who she hadn’t seen in over three years was standing there. My granny called out her name and began to cry, her best friend crying out too and sharing a hug.

I tell you, there was not a dry eye in the carport.

She was dancing in her seat, laughed with us, sang her songs, and would continue to comment on our teeth (she lost her dentures and is currently without anything … sigh).

3 Generations of Punzalan’s – celebrating the matriarch of our family
Engadine, NSW
(September 21, 2019)

At the end of her party, she was absolutely wiped out; good thing we made it her “Birthday Lunch” instead of “Birthday Dinner” =)

Tuckered out from her Birthday Festivities
Engadine, NSW
(September 21, 2019)

While I’m in Australia, Canadians are preparing to head to the ballot box for the 2019 Federal Election.

The Canada Elections Act states that a federal election must be held on the third Monday of October in the fourth calendar year following the previous federal election. As the last election was on October 19, 2015, the next fixed election date is October 21, 2019.

Greens, Conservatives, NDP, or Liberal – your voice matters!
(oh, PPC is also an option … but like, c’mon)

I’ve always believed that it is our democratic duty to head to the ballot box and contribute to the democratic process to choose who will lead our country for the next four years.

Whether you are a Canadian citizen living at home and abroad, you should ensure your voice is heard.

Canadian electors living abroad who have previously resided in Canada can vote by special ballot in federal elections, regardless of how long they have been living abroad. The deadline to apply to vote by mail is Tuesday, October 15, 6 p.m., Eastern time.

Elections Canada will send a package which includes your Official Special Ballot Paper

I encourage everyone (decided or undecided) who is able to vote to visit Vote Compass, a really useful tool for everything to determine which party best aligns with their values.

Oh, if you live in (or know someone) in Markham-Stouffville or Vancouver-Granville, they gotta check out the Hon. Dr. Jane Philpott, MP and Hon. Jody Wilson-Raybould, MP
These two are independent MP’s up for reelection and are icons in Canadian Politics!

I’m voting, will you?

Hillsong Waterloo

I have found community with my new church family at Hillsong.

It wasn’t an easy decision at first – I wrestled with it for weeks.

Some people have reached out to me and asked how I can attend Hillsong knowing the stance of Hillsong’s Senior Pastor, Brian Houston towards the LGBTQ2+ Community serving in their church?

Do I agree with their view? Absolutely not.

Do I think they’ve missed the mark? Yes.

Do I believe they genuinely love all people? Wholeheartedly yes.

Here’s the thing, all I’ve ever seen demonstrated and experienced at Hillsong Waterloo is: love.

Love, love, and more love.

Here’s a perfect example: a couple of weeks ago, this guy walked into the front of the church during worship. As he made his way to his spot, he was quickly greeted by the people around him (including two pastors); hugs, jumping up and down and high fives all around.

He was beaming and wore his “Sunday Best”: a simple black v-neck showing his silver chain, rolled up blue jeans paired with a spotless pair of white Vans. Oh, and he was rocking a fierce and classic set of newly filled French Tips.

The best part?

He stood in front of the church, arms wide open, worshiping his Jesus.

I was overwhelmed with emotions. He embodied the meaning of “come as you are” and the Christians around him welcomed him with open arms (literally).

Here’s a fun fact about Brian & Bobbie Houston. While they may hold (what I believe to be an outdated) belief that LGBTQ2+ Christians cannot serve in ministry, Pastor Brian has been an active opponent of Conversion Therapy (eh, least they’re on the right side of that issue).

Regardless of where you stand with Hillsong, consider this statement that was released on February 14, 2019:

“At Hillsong we want to be known by who we are for. We are for people finding hope in Jesus, we are for people finding love and acceptance, and we are for helping people in any way we can. Our focus is on pointing people to Jesus as “the way, the truth, and the life”. No matter where you are in the world, when you enter our doors, you will be greeted with a sign that says, ‘Welcome Home’. That is the heartbeat of Hillsong Church. Indeed, that is the heartbeat of God.”

Yup, you should go for it!

So, let’s go back to what I was saying earlier.

It was hard to give up the great life that I had in Canada, however I have gained so much in just three months of being in Australia.

  1. I have a job that energizes me and is giving me an opportunity to travel across the country
  2. I am living a more active lifestyle and I’m taking the steps to reclaim my body
  3. I get to make some more memories with my Granny while she’s on this earth
  4. I still get to participate in shaping the future of Canada by voting in the upcoming federal election
  5. I saw the love of Jesus towards the LGBTQ2+ Community in a church that I did not believe was able to show it

Is there something in your life that you are afraid to give up?

Giving it up might mean a financial setback or may not be the fan favourite option.

People might question your decision to change; heck, you might not even be ready to pursue the change (I know I wasn’t).

However, imagine what you have to gain?!

For example, imagine someone building their career with the same company for decades and then leave it to start a new career?

One could focus on everything they’re giving up: the comfort of the known, the familiarity of the organization, or the reputation and network they have built over the decades.

Or one can focus on what they have to gain: an opportunity to disrupt their narrative, learn a new industry, or more importantly – a better life for their family.

So, whatever it is in your life – may you move away from your fear of losing it all and move triumphantly towards everything you have to gain.

Onwards,
-Zaighum

For Such a Time as This

Sydney Central Business District (CBD)
Sydney, Australia

Last week, I went back to work for the first time in over two months.

I woke up at 4:30am, showered and did my hair, packed my change of clothes and lunch, and walked to the gym.

I showed up to the first gym session at 5:15am.

After the 45 minute workout, I quickly washed my body and changed into work clothes.

I walked out of the shower facility and was met with cheers from my Gym Family.

They haven’t seen me outside gym clothes, they were just as excited to go on this big adventure as I was.

I got to the train station at by 6:15am and waited for the train to arrive just after 6:30am (express trains from where I am run every thirty minutes until 8am).

I reached the the next train station by 7:20am and I walked 10 minutes down the street to the office.

8:00am, the clock started and it was time to work.

I was welcomed to the team with open arms (literally, because they’re huggers) and was given a list of things to do.

After my day was over at 5:00pm, I made the commute home and walked through the door just after 7:00pm.

I made dinner, cleaned up, and was in bed by 9:00pm.

Rinse and repeat for five days; it was exhausting.

I was excited for my first week to be finished and find out what the next adventure would be.

And then I got a job offer to stay.

While flattered that they were willing to keep me on, I politely declined.

My goal with re-entering the workforce is to avoid working eight hours a day or five days a week – nor do I want to spend my day commuting. After all, these were the things that I did back in Canada which contributed to my decision to drastically change my life by packing up and moving overseas to embark on a new path.

I also have to keep in mind that my income in Australia will be taxed in Canada (sigh) … that’s right friends, double the taxes!

I just wanted a job where I can meet new people, experience a new industry, and fund my trip to explore new areas I haven’t been to.

I was going to apply to be a server at this really neat burger place a few towns over called Grill’d – they have a Beyond Burger which is to die for.

Grill’d Healthy Burgers
The Beyond Burger

Before I could stop by the restaurant and apply (and sink my teeth in that Beyond Burger), I was approached by the company I had done temporary work for and was offered everything I wanted while working in Australia (hours, flexibility, rate) in exchange for my background and expertise in operations, processes, systems, organization, and leadership.

I sat down with the Owner and the General Manager and discussed what the needs were. We discussed how I had over 200 applications rejected during my job search and then I was randomly put into this temporary placement. Just when they needed someone to come in and support them in reaching their organizational goals, I arrived.

I got up and gave them both a hug, I’ll be back to work on September 2nd and stay until the next great adventure makes itself available.

“And who knows but that you have come to this place for such a time as this?”

Esther 4:14 (NIV)

The last few weeks, I’ve been wresting with my decision of packing up my life and coming to Australia?

Why was I so compelled to leave a career that I loved, a stable income, a limited but happy social life, and all the comforts of being home?

Of all the times to be in Australia, why did everything fall into place for me to be here right now?

And then last night I found out my 90 Year Old Granny living with Dementia was being brought back to Australia from the Philippines.

The last time I saw her was at our 2018 Punzalan Family Reunion in September to celebrate her birthday and I left the Philippines wondering if I would ever see her again.

So, I got up early and took the train to the airport and waited at the arrival gate for her.

She came down the arrival gate and I ran up the ramp, tears streaming down my face as I broke down on my knees holding her frail hands. She stared at my face, placed her hands on my cheek and then she smiled with her toothless grin. She asked me how my mother was, and asked me, “did you come here to see me?” She remembered that I’m from Canada and used to sing for her.

As I pushed her wheelchair to the car, I realized she is the reason why I am here. I am here, during this season, to be around her, for such a time as this.

The opportunity to build on my career isn’t going anywhere – I can always go back to that.

For now, I will continue to embrace this season of rest and self-discovery during my Radical Sabbatical.

Most importantly, I will enjoy this time to be with my family and this exciting opportunity to create more memories with this wonderful woman in my life.

Sydney Kingsford Smith International Airport
Sydney, Australia
August 25, 2019

While I’m on the topic of significant moments in Australia, I got really big news this past Thursday!

Back Story:

When I first landed, I set up a meeting with my previous employer at their Australia office. During our conversation, I quickly realized I would be walking away from the office for the last time as there was no room for me on their team.

I got into the train and cried the entire ride home.

It was time for a career change, I needed to let go of the company that I had served with all my heart for almost six years and let go this idea of going back to work for them at this time in my life.

This experience forced me into this unique opportunity to embark on a new career path and while I was scared shitless of the idea of pursuing it, I knew that everything I had gone through prepared me for such a time as this.

So, I went to an Education Counsellor in the city who specialized in International Students and I applied for a program that I had wanted to pursue for sometime and meet my goal to achieve my Masters by the age of 30.

Present Day:

I’ve been accepted into the Masters of Social Work (Qualifying) with the Australia College of Applied Psychology in February 2021!

ACCEPTED!!!
August 22, 2019

Pretty cool for someone who has only been here for two months, eh?!

Oh, I celebrated my 2nd Month in Australia!!!

Sydney Harbour Bridge
Sydney, Australia
August 17, 2019

To celebrate month number two:

My day started out for breakfast at Royale Speciality in Surry Hills. Royale Specialty prides itself as Surry Hill’s first espresso bar devoted to serving only natural process coffee.

For those coffee connoisseurs out there:

“The natural process, also known as the dry process, is a back-to-basics approach that stems from Ethiopia. The fruit is left on the bean, and there’s little disruption to the coffee while it dries. It requires certain climatic conditions & investment by the farmers to ensure the drying of the fruit and seed in time. This process can create the most flavourful coffees with interesting notes and characteristics. Well picked and processed natural coffee can bring out incredible cupping notes, and offer consumers amazing sweet flavours with some naturals tasting more like a tropical fruit salad or fruit compote than coffee. And what’s more, natural coffee is the most eco friendly way of processing coffee as it is produced without water.”

Then, I visited the Zensation Tea House in Waterloo.

The moment I walked in, I was overwhelmed with a sense of peace.

A vinyl record of some of Elton John’s best hits were playing in the background.

The aroma of Dim Sum, Noodles, Buns, and sweet desserts filled the air. Maybe its because of how hungry I’ve been while on the F45 Eight Week Challenge (which is almost done) but that was what I smelled first.

I couldn’t eat any of it (sigh) so I sat at a table and looked at the Tea Menu.

There were pages and pages of options, some teas I have heard of and tasted and others I have not.

I settled for the Milky Oolong Tea imported from Alishan, Taiwan.

According to the menu:

“This full leaf tea derives its name from the creamy and buttery scent while the palette is light with peach, gardenia and hints of coconut. This can be attributed to the tea grown at high altitude. A truly complex and luxurious infusion with light honey colour and smooth aftertaste.”

I kid you not, it was one of the best teas I ever had (I drank five pots worth).

After I had my tea, I walked over to Rosebery and visited a place called The Cannery. While it isn’t as cool as Lonsdale Quay in North Vancouver, there are several local eateries, desserts, and vendors to experience.

The Cannery
Rosebery, NSW

One place that really stood out while I was in the area was Archie Rose Distilling Co. which offers tours and tastings throughout the day and of course a full service bar. I love my Whiskey, and you best believe I’ll be stopping by here sometime in September!

Archie Rose Distilling Co.
Rosebery, NSW

So, friends – take a moment and consider these points in your own life:

  • Instead of whining out in despair, why me?!assertively ask yourself, why me? (do this out loud)
  • Reflect on the last three to five years – have there been specific events that have lead up to this moment in your life?
  • If you are a person of prayer, a vision board maker, or someone who speaks out daily affirmations or manifestations; is what’s happening to you in this moment something you’ve been seeking all along?

I hope no matter what situation you are currently finding yourself in, you can pause and reflect if what you have been experiencing is supposed to prepare you for such a time as this.

Onwards,
-Zaighum

Pivot

This was likely the first thing you thought of when you read the title
(that’s what came to mine…)

“Your job isn’t to know the how, it’s to know the what and to be open to discovering, and receiving, the how.”

Jen Sincero

At this point, I’ve applied to over 200 job postings.

  1. Office Jobs: Reception, Mail & Courier, Admin Assistant, Office Assistant, Personal Assistant, Marketing Assistant, Marketing Coordinator
  2. Non-Profit Jobs: Donor Relations, Fundraising Assistant, Corporate Sponsorships
  3. Hospitality Jobs: Events Assistant, Event Coordinator, Banquet Lead, Concierge

I don’t even remember what companies I’ve applied to at this point, but I’ve never seen so many notifications in my inbox.

I read the posting, look at the qualifications, and I apply.

And a few days later I get a response along the lines of:

“Dear Mr. Punzalan – we have reviewed your application thoroughly and while we are impressed with your experience and qualifications, we feel as though there are other applicants that meet a certain set of criteria set for the role. We’ll keep your application on hand and if something comes up, we’ll be in contact. All the best with your job search. Warm regards.”

Back to the drawing boards.

It has taken a toll on my pride.

My days consisted of: Gym, Breakfast, Job Boards, Snack, Job Boards, Lunch, Job Boards, NAP, Job Board, Snack, Job Boards, Dinner, Job Boards.

Somewhere in between, I would read my book (you HAVE to read it) or binge watch a Netflix original series (I’ve done three).

The only times I left my house was to go to the gym or to go grocery shopping.

There was one day where I walked into the the washroom and just stared at the mirror. My hair was a tangled, my facial hair was a mess, I was wearing the same sweats I wore for the last few days and something just *clicked*.

This was not me!

YOU are a BADASS
How to stop doubting your greatness and start living an awesome life
by: Jen Sincero
It’s a must read!

So, I made a deal with myself:

  1. I’m only allowed to apply for jobs at night, when I come home from being out all day
  2. If I do stay at home, I have to at least get dressed and walk around the block – no more lounging in my sweats all day.

I decided it was time to change my mindset, I had to pivot from the path I was going down and onto a more positive one.

I mean, c’mon …

I’M IN AUSTRALIA!

So, I do what I always do when I need to reset: I went to the beach.

Cronulla, NSW
July 25, 2019

I walked around and realized how much I was missing by sitting at home all day.

It is “winter” in Australia. I laugh at this season because even though it’s winter, you still need sunglasses because of how sunny it gets. Even though it’s super windy these days, there is not a drop of rain; it’s basically Vancouver during October/November.

Here’s what I’ve been up to:

One of the things we started doing at F45 Engadine is this 8 Week Challenge. You work out five days a week and stick to this super strict meal plan (measuring, portioning, weighing food, meal prep). You also cut out bread, potatoes, and alcohol (UGH).

I came all this way to a new country, and now I’m on a diet?

Sigh.

So, I’ve been trying to find ways to make it fun, I mean there’s only four more weeks left on this program (I really can’t afford to stay at this gym – they charge $65 a week, yikes).

Last Saturday, I went into the city for the first time in weeks.

There are so many tempting things to do when you visit the city, my favourites are day drinking and eating at every single bar that I visit.

It’s a great way to meet new people. I usually sit at the bar, someone comes up and while they wait for their drink you just turn over, say hello and make conversation.

Since the challenge started, I made it an excuse not to go out.

However, I’ve been killing this challenge so, and I felt as though I could handle going into the city and not be tempted with food.

I went, I overcame temptation; I crushed it.

Darlinghurst, NSW
August 3, 2019

Here’s how crazy the evening went!

I was walking around the city, enjoying the usual night life that is a Saturday. One of the best spots to go is Darling Harbour, they have so many cafe’s, restaurants, and buskers.

While I was walking in the area, I took my headphones out and I heard my name being called.

I looked around, quite confused. I’ve never heard of another Zaighum before, so someone was obviously calling me. It was strange though, because I don’t really have any friends here and who would know me?!

I looked behind me, and it was an Australian local who was on a Working Holiday Visa back in Vancouver back in 2016!

We met at Oakridge Centre in Vancouver at the David’sTea.

We caught up for a bit then went our separate ways – what a random event!

Hillsong Waterloo
Waterloo, NSW
August 4, 2019

During one of my first workouts at F45, I was paired with this fire cracker Italian woman who lifted heavier weights than I was lifting and simply walked to next station while I basically crawled.

At the end of the session, Pina introduced herself and we started to chat in the parking lot after class. During our conversation, she asked me what my weeks used to look like back in Canada. I spoke about my job and the work I did during the week and then spoke about the Church I went to on Sunday’s.

She lit up when I brought up Church, and she didn’t miss a beat by inviting me to hers.

I’ve only been to one church since coming to Australia, and I was trying to figure out what the next Church I wanted to visit would be.

Pina then revealed she was a Pastor for Hillsong City Campus, Waterloo.

I was taken aback for a moment.

I was working out with a Hillsong Pastor; crazy!

I found a Sunday I was freed up, and decided to go.

It’s quite a distance to go to Hillsong from where I live. I walk 15 Minutes to get to the train station which leaves every 30 Minutes and goes into the city which takes about 45 Minutes depending on which line you take to Central Station. They have a Community Shuttle that leaves the station 45 Minutes before the service starts (which of course, I missed). I thought about walking, but I was getting close to the start of the service. So, I hailed an Uber which ended up picking someone else and took them to church, oh and I still had to pay for it (I got my refund the next day, but it was a pain to get). The second Uber came and I arrived at the church about 15 Minutes after the service started (I really dislike being late).

When I walked into the church, it was everything I had expected. There was a cafe, a gift shop, lounges, foosball, and Hillsong branded signage just about everywhere. Oh, and there was even a Basketball Court (yup, a Basketball Court).

I walked into the Worship Centre and was quickly greeted by an usher and asked to sit on the “inside of the row”. I almost said no because I am a back row, isle seat person … but I should’ve came earlier, SO I sat where I was told to sit.

The room was dark with a full light show on stage. There were photographers, videographers, producers, and of course the full band, worship leaders, and a choir.

Yup, I was at Hillsong.

It was the first Sunday of the month which meant they were going to take up communion and they ended up doing What a Beautiful Name.

This song gets me every time and I found myself absolutely undone (you can replay the bridge over and over, it’s quite something).

Once worship was over, the message was delivered via Live Feed from the other Hillsong City Campus, Alexandria.

The pastor spoke about how sometimes our plans change, no matter how much we want to be in control. How sometimes we have this vision of where we want to go and we continue to hit roadblocks and setbacks. Sometimes these occurrences aren’t in place to tell you to “ditch the dream” and give up. Instead, they are in place for you to go down a different route to reach your goal.

God isn’t telling you to completely go off your path to reach your goal, He’s just telling you to pivot onto a different path to get there!

I had a goal of working in Australia to fund my Radical Sabbatical and was negotiating with the company I had served for almost six years to help me out. Unfortunately, I had learned that week that they did not have anything available and could not accommodate me; a devastating conversation and outcome I had prepared for but still stung nonetheless.

The path I had planned on going down was no longer an option and I needed to accept the outcome and pivot onto a different path.

The following Tuesday, I was staying true to my commitment to myself and headed into the city for a day of wandering. As I was out and about, I received a phone call from an Agency that came across my application and asked me if I was open to interviewing for a one week placement in the city as an Administration/Events Assistant for a Conference Speaker/Coach who facilitates corporate events for up to 150 professionals in a four-day session.

Being a Temp has its perks:

  1. You get paid weekly
  2. You have flexibility to say yes or no to contracts
  3. No week is the same (depending on the length of your contract)
  4. You meet new people
  5. You are exposed to new companies/industries
Sydney, Australia
August 7, 2019
My first job interview since 2013

I walked the twenty minutes from Central Station in the city and met with the Recruitment Consultant who gave me the run down of the company and job.

He spoke to me about my qualifications and asked me if I was okay taking on a one week placement, knowing I would be back to the (f)unemployed life once it has completed.

I am more than fine with it.

After my meeting, I went to my interview with the company who showed interest in me.

It was nerve-racking as I followed my GPS, the thirty minute walk felt like forever.

I walked into the office, it was a office shared space – I love these models, beautiful community can come out of it.

I was ushered into the boardroom to wait for the HR Manager and other members to interview me.

As everyone came in, I stood up, reached out my hand for the hand shake (as you read in the Instagram Post above, it was one of the moments I had to prepare for) and then sat opposite the HR Manager.

My interview began and instead of the scripted questions that were on their computers, we began to speak on my entire Radical Sabbatical journey and what it has been like to find work.

There was a lot of laughter and comforting from the team; we both agreed this could be my foot in the door to the workforce – opening the doors for other opportunities once employers see that I have worked in this country.

At the end of the interview, we parted with a hug (handshakes are overrated anyway) and I was on my way.

The next day, I was informed by the Agency that the team wanted me to join them for the week, calling my interview “genuine and unforgettable”.

I am going back to work tomorrow!

The moment I chose to accept how things were going and pivot from my previous path and go down another, things began to fall into place.

The same day, I received another phone call from another Agency in the city saying they were impressed with my background and wanted to interview me the week after my placement completed.

It’s only up from here, I’m going to be just fine.

“You have to change you thinking first, and then the evidence appears. Our big mistake is that we do it the other way around, we demand to see the evidence before we believe it to be true.”

Jen Sincero

So, friends.

Are you on a path to reach your goals and you are continuing to experience road blocks and setbacks?

Don’t scrap the goal, just pivot onto a different path and see where it leads.

It might be a small change with a big result.

Can’t wait to let you know how the week goes.

Onwards,

-Zaighum